She met her future husband Otto Bauer on January 1, ; she was on vacation in Florida with some friends to see a Phish concert, while he had flown down from New York City "on a mission away from the snow, sand, rain and cold and a New York Jets defeat. It was sparks. They stayed in Florida for a week; she immediately afterwards moved to New York City to be with him. Shortly after her arrival in New York, the two of them were at a bar in Greenwich Village having an evening out when one of Bauer's friends asked him if he was still appearing in porn films. She was enthusiastic about the idea of appearing on film. They proceeded to put a static video camera in their bedroom to film their sex scenes; afterwards she would study them to critique what occurred.